I got a BFN today. I'm not surprised and so far I'm doing ok. It comes and goes, I'm ok one minute a total mess the next.
I'm a planner so Banks and I came up w/ a plan. We're going to cycle again in mid-late june if at all possible. If that doesn't work we'll try once more and begin working on adoption. For the first time DH said that we'd find a way to be parents no matter what it costs. It makes me feel better to know he's as committed to that goal as I am.
I'm glad to have a plan and I'm going to let my self be whiny and mopey for tonight and tomorrow and then try to deal and go from there.
4 comments:
I am so sorry. I think it is great that you have your plan B and you should take all the time you need to whine.
I am so sorry. One good thing is that you have lots of beautiful frosties!! I know that doesn't make the BFN sting any less, though. I look forward to cycling together in June. ((HUGS))
I'm so sorry, I was so hopeful it would be your miracle BFP. Be kind to yourself! People told me that after we lost Charlotte and I decided to take it to heart. Slept in when I wanted, ate what would comfort me, let dumb stuff go by the wayside. I'm glad your husband is so supportive and you have the same goal.
so sorry, thinking of you
EB
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